{"id":566,"date":"2021-03-22T10:52:46","date_gmt":"2021-03-22T10:52:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/florinacioaga.ro\/?p=566"},"modified":"2026-09-20T17:37:43","modified_gmt":"2026-09-20T17:37:43","slug":"tie-ce-iti-croieste-drumul-florina-cioaga-coach-transformational","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/florinacioaga.ro\/ro\/tie-ce-iti-croieste-drumul-florina-cioaga-coach-transformational\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0162ie ce \u020b\u0163i croie\u015fte drumul?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;section&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;0px||12px|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;row&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||0px|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; header_3_line_height=&#8221;1.4em&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h3>\u00cen tumultul zilei de ast\u0103zi&#8230;<\/h3>\n<p>&#8230; arareori ne uit\u0103m retrospectiv la ce ne-a adus aici \u015fi acum, la ce ne-a fost motor \u020bn momentele de expansiune, la ce ne-a adus alinare \u020bn momentele grele, la micile victorii, sau la lec\u0163iile \u020bnv\u0103\u0163ate.<\/p>\n<h3>Dar, c\u00e2teodat\u0103&#8230;<\/h3>\n<p>&#8230; mai punem haosul pe pauz\u0103 \u015fi ne amintim de toate astea.<br \/>Ne amintim pentru c\u0103 ceva sau cineva ne-a ap\u0103sat pe butoane. <strong>Care butoane?<\/strong> Butoanele acelea pe care le avem cu to\u0163ii puse ca semn de carte \u020bn propriul abecedar, \u015fi pe care ni le mai test\u0103m din c\u00e2nd \u020bn c\u00e2nd s\u0103 vedem dac\u0103 mai rezon\u0103m cu ele.<br \/>Ce-mi place la <em>\u201cap\u0103sarea\u201d<\/em> de butoane este c\u0103 vine \u015fi cu <em>\u201canaliza\u201d<\/em> butoanelor, a <em>\u201cde ce-ului\u201d<\/em> din spatele lor.<\/p>\n<h3>\u015ei atunci \u020bncerc\u0103m s\u0103 conect\u0103m punctele&#8230;<\/h3>\n<p>&#8230; s\u0103 facem rela\u0163ii cauzale g\u00e2ndind c\u0103 azi am ajuns aici pentru c\u0103 am f\u0103cut ceva anume.<br \/>Interesant ar fi s\u0103 realiz\u0103m faptul c\u0103, \u015fi dac\u0103 nu am fi f\u0103cut acel ceva, tot aici \u015fi acum am fi ajuns, pentru c\u0103, adesea, ce ne ghideaz\u0103 nu \u201cse vede\u201d cu u\u015furin\u0163\u0103, <em>ce ne ghideaz\u0103 sunt anumite comportamente, credin\u0163e, valori, emo\u0163ii, de care devenim con\u015ftien\u0163i abia mai t\u00e2rziu<\/em> c\u00e2nd am \u020bnceput s\u0103 ne \u020bn\u0163elegem propriile tipare.<br \/>Comportamentele, credin\u0163ele, valorile \u015fi emo\u0163iile sunt, \u020bn definitiv, ca un fel de <strong>constela\u0163ie a cauzelor<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h3>Un prieten povestea c\u0103 a f\u0103cut dou\u0103 facult\u0103\u0163i&#8230;<\/h3>\n<p>&#8230; una pentru mama \u015fi una pentru tata, dar acum nu tr\u0103ie\u015fte din niciuna din cele dou\u0103 profesii.<br \/>Acela a fost, pentru mine, unul dintre momentele \u020bn care mi-am pus pu\u0163in haosul pe pauz\u0103 \u015fi <em>m-am \u201cuitat\u201d la mine c\u00e2nd aveam 18 ani<\/em>.<br \/>La 18 ani eram proasp\u0103t intrat\u0103 la Facultatea FABBV din cadrul ASE, ca s\u0103 \u201csem\u0103n cu mama\u201d, \u015fi, un an mai t\u00e2rziu, m-am \u020bnscris \u015fi la Facultatea de Drept din cadrul UCDC, ca s\u0103 \u201csem\u0103n \u015fi cu tata\u201d.<br \/><strong>Nevoia de \u201ca demonstra\u201d<\/strong> din acel moment mi-a fost motor pentru a face ambele facult\u0103\u0163i \u020bn paralel.<br \/>\u00cen plus, m-am \u015fi angajat din primul an de ASE, a\u015fa c\u0103 am avut o perioad\u0103 destul de lung\u0103 de timp \u020bn care jonglam constant \u020bntre locul de munc\u0103 \u015fi cursurile \u015fi examenele de la cele dou\u0103 facult\u0103\u0163i.<br \/>Pe atunci motivam c\u0103 am mult timp liber \u015fi c\u0103 vreau s\u0103 \u020bl folosesc eficient.<br \/>Cu mintea de acum pot spune c\u0103 <em>fugeam de mine, fugeam de g\u00e2ndurile mele care spuneau \u020bn continuu c\u0103 tot nu sunt suficient de bun\u0103<\/em>.<br \/>Cuno\u015ftin\u0163ele dob\u00e2ndite din facult\u0103\u0163i \u015fi diplomele ob\u0163inute m-au ajutat s\u0103 fiu \u020bn r\u00e2ndul lumii \u015fi m-au ajutat s\u0103 bifez multe c\u0103su\u0163e care se cer bifate ori la angajare ori \u020bn cadrul altor institu\u0163ii de \u020bnv\u0103\u0163\u0103m\u00e2nt. Alte institu\u0163ii de \u020bnv\u0103\u0163\u0103m\u00e2nt? Da, dar revenim la asta mai t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n<h3>Am auzit recent o vorb\u0103&#8230;<\/h3>\n<p>&#8230; <em>\u201cchemarea ta te va chema \u020bntotdeauna\u201d<\/em> (Your calling will always call you \u2013 da, \u015ftiu, sun\u0103 mai bine \u020bn englez\u0103).<br \/>Nu \u015ftiu dac\u0103 la \u020bnceputul vie\u0163ii profesionale am sim\u0163it chemarea pe care o simt acum, dar nu a\u015f fi fost ast\u0103zi aici f\u0103r\u0103 toat\u0103 experien\u0163a acumulat\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 drumul pe care l-am parcurs \u2013 sau poate tot aici a\u015f fi ajuns? \u2013 n-o s\u0103 \u015ftiu niciodat\u0103.<br \/>\u00cen mediul profesional am \u020bnt\u00e2lnit \u015fi <strong>oameni incredibili<\/strong> de la care am \u020bnv\u0103\u0163at foarte multe \u015fi care mi-au oferit medii s\u0103n\u0103toase \u020bn care s\u0103 m\u0103 dezvolt ca om \u015fi ca profesionist, dar \u015fi oameni care au reprezentat lec\u0163ii prin ei \u020bn\u015fi\u015fi.<br \/>Pe ace\u015ftia din urm\u0103, \u020bntr-un timp, \u020bi consideram a fi oameni toxici, dar recent am auzit pe cineva, cu mult mai mult\u0103 experien\u0163\u0103 dec\u00e2t mine, care zicea c\u0103 nu oamenii sunt toxici, oamenii sunt a\u015fa cum sunt, ci <em>rela\u0163iile \u020bn care nu suntem bine<\/em> \u015fi \u020bn care, totu\u015fi, decidem s\u0103 st\u0103m, acelea sunt toxice.<br \/>Perspectiva aceasta, pentru mine, a reprezentat o imens\u0103 descoperire, pentru c\u0103 am realizat, ceva ce poate ar fi trebuit s\u0103 realizez de mai de mult, c\u0103 <strong>la mine st\u0103 controlul rela\u0163iilor \u020bn care sunt<\/strong>, \u015fi \u020bn puterea mea st\u0103 dac\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n sau nu \u020bntr-o rela\u0163ie, indiferent c\u0103 este personal\u0103 sau profesional\u0103.<\/p>\n<h3>Povestesc de lucrurile pe care le aud&#8230;<\/h3>\n<p>&#8230; sau le citesc pentru c\u0103 eu am convingerea faptului c\u0103 informa\u0163iile, oamenii, ocaziile, apar \u020bn via\u0163a noastr\u0103 fix c\u00e2nd avem nevoie s\u0103 apar\u0103, nu mai devreme pentru c\u0103 nu am \u015fti ce s\u0103 facem cu ele. \u015ei, cine \u015ftie, poate sunt \u015fi altcuiva de folos citindu-le aici.<\/p>\n<p>Cu siguran\u0163\u0103 multe informa\u0163ii, oamenii sau ocazii au trecut pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine c\u00e2nd nu eram \u020bnc\u0103 preg\u0103tit\u0103 pentru ele, chiar \u015fi de c\u00e2nd mi-am \u020bnceput, \u020bn mod con\u015ftient, <strong>c\u0103l\u0103toria de dezvoltare personal\u0103.<br \/><\/strong> Dac\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci eram \u020bntr-o fug\u0103 continu\u0103 pentru dezvoltarea mea profesional\u0103, am realizat c\u0103 nu \u020bmi aducea pace, nu asta m\u0103 ajuta s\u0103 pun lini\u015ftit\u0103 noaptea capul pe pern\u0103. Era ceva ce lipsea, \u015fi sim\u0163eam un handicap c\u00e2nd era vorba de a lucra \u020bn echipa, de a \u020bndruma o echip\u0103, de a fi un <strong>manager de oameni<\/strong> \u015fi nu un manager de proiecte. Poate pentru mul\u0163i nu e diferen\u0163\u0103 \u020bntre cele dou\u0103, manager de oameni \u015fi manager de proiecte, dar pentru mine a f\u0103cut toat\u0103 diferen\u0163a din lume c\u00e2nd am realizat c\u0103 vreau s\u0103 fiu tratat\u0103 ca un om, \u015fi nu ca o resurs\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen ultimii cinci ani din aceast\u0103 c\u0103l\u0103torie de dezvoltare personal\u0103 am \u020bncercat s\u0103 pun c\u00e2te un pic din fiecare, astfel \u020bnc\u00e2t s\u0103 m\u0103 hr\u0103nesc \u015fi fizic, \u015fi mental, \u015fi spiritual.<br \/>Am citit mult despre leadership, lucrul cu oamenii, comunicare, am participat la tot felul de cursuri \u015fi ateliere de leadership, public speaking, improviza\u0163ie, \u015fi storytelling.<br \/>Am \u020bnceput s\u0103 dansez tango Argentinian \u015fi s\u0103 practic Krav Maga, arte mar\u0163iale de autoap\u0103rare. Am \u020bnceput s\u0103 fac terapie \u015fi am schimbat terapeu\u0163i p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd am g\u0103sit-o pe Simona, un om minunat, care m\u0103 \u020bnso\u0163e\u015fte \u020bn procesul meu de <strong>vindecare prin psihoterapie Jungiana<\/strong>. Din toate mi-am luat ce am avut nevoie pentru a-mi construi o funda\u0163ie solid\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103, \u015fi continui zi de zi s\u0103 m\u0103 hr\u0103nesc din toate acestea.<\/p>\n<h3>Punctul de r\u0103scruce a fost, \u020bns\u0103&#8230;<\/h3>\n<p>&#8230; \u015fcoala de coaching <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mindlearners.ro\/%20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mind Learner<\/a><\/span>s.<br \/>Aici am \u020bnt\u00e2lnit dou\u0103 femei nemaipomenite, Alecsandra si Carmen. Ele dou\u0103 ne-au ini\u0163iat, pe mine \u015fi pe alte 14 femei, tot nemaipomenite, \u020bn tainele <strong>coachingului transforma\u0163ional<\/strong>.<br \/>\u015ei dac\u0103 la \u020bnceputul \u015fcolii inten\u0163ia era de a-mi \u020bmbun\u0103t\u0103\u0163ii skill-urile de comunicare \u015fi de lucru cu oamenii, la sf\u00e2r\u015fit am ie\u015fit de acolo av\u00e2nd claritate asupra lucrurilor pe care le am de aliniat \u020bn via\u0163a mea astfel \u020bnc\u00e2t s\u0103 g\u0103sesc acea <strong>\u020bmplinire<\/strong> pe care o tot c\u0103utam, \u015fi am devenit con\u015ftient\u0103 de <strong>misiunea mea<\/strong>, \u015fi de drumul pe care \u020bl am de parcurs \u020bn continuare.<br \/><strong>Misiunea mea este de a te \u020bnso\u0163i \u020bntr-o c\u0103l\u0103torie de \u020bnv\u0103\u0163are, autocunoa\u015ftere, \u015fi schimbare de perspectiv\u0103, \u020bn care s\u0103 identifici dac\u0103 ac\u0163iunile tale sunt aliniate cu valorile, credin\u0163ele \u015fi emo\u0163iile tale.<\/strong><br \/>Eu azi m\u0103 folosesc de toate informa\u021biile dob\u00e2ndite \u020bn \u015fcoala de coaching pentru propria mea stare de bine, pentru propriul meu proces de con\u0219tientizare.<br \/>Cred cu t\u0103rie c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd vrem s\u0103 punem ceva \u00een practic\u0103, trebuie s\u0103 \u00eencepem mai \u00eent\u00e2i cu noi \u00een\u0219ine. Astfel, <em>efectul propriilor noastre rezultate \u00eei va atrage pe al\u021bii<\/em> \u0219i vor fi dornici s\u0103 afle c\u00e2t mai multe despre noi \u0219i despre ceea ce avem s\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219im lumii.<\/p>\n<h3>\u015ei dac\u0103 tot vorbeam mai devreme&#8230;<\/h3>\n<p>&#8230; de alte institu\u0163ii de \u020bnv\u0103\u0163\u0103m\u00e2nt, c\u0103l\u0103toria mi-a dus mai departe pa\u015fii spre <strong>Facultatea de Psihologie<\/strong> din cadrul UBB. Da, am ajuns \u020bn acel moment \u020bn care s\u0103 fac o facultate ca s\u0103 \u201csem\u0103n \u015fi cu mine\u201d. Recunosc \u2013 cochetam de mul\u0163i ani cu ideea asta, dar nu am avut curajul s\u0103 fac acest pas p\u00e2n\u0103 nu mi s-a clarificat care este, de fapt, drumul meu.<br \/>Sunt at\u00e2t de recunosc\u0103toare pentru toate cele asimilate p\u00e2n\u0103 acum \u020bn c\u0103l\u0103toria \u020bn care m\u0103 aflu \u015fi privesc plin\u0103 de curiozitate spre viitor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cNu este amuzant cum zi de zi nimic nu se schimb\u0103, dar c\u00e2nd prive\u0219ti \u00eenapoi, totul este diferit?\u201d<\/strong> \u2013 <em>C.S. Lewis<\/em><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cen tumultul zilei de ast\u0103zi, arareori ne uit\u0103m retrospectiv la ce ne-a adus aici \u015fi acum, la ce ne-a fost motor \u020bn momentele de expansiune, la ce ne-a adus alinare \u020bn momentele grele, la micile victorii, sau la lec\u0163iile \u020bnv\u0103\u0163ate. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":161,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"De unde \u020bncepi atunci c\u00e2nd nu \u020b\u0163i g\u0103se\u015fti cuvintele?\r\n\r\nDe unde \u020bncepi c\u00e2nd ai at\u00e2tea g\u00e2nduri \u015fi emo\u0163ii pe care le vrei puse pe h\u00e2rtie, dar nu reu\u015fe\u015fti s\u0103 le une\u015fti astfel \u020bnc\u00e2t s\u0103 ias\u0103 ceva inteligibil?\r\n\r\nDe unde \u020bncepi chiar dac\u0103 nu e prima oar\u0103 c\u00e2nd te-ai pus la masa de scris \u015fi creionul st\u0103 blocat pe albul h\u00e2rtiei?\r\n<h3>Am lucrat subiectul blocajului \u020bn scris \u020bntr-o sesiune de coaching...<\/h3>\r\n...\u015fi am realizat c\u0103 scrisul pentru mine \u020bnseamn\u0103 s\u0103 fiu vulnerabil\u0103, \u020bnseamn\u0103 s\u0103 las o fereastr\u0103 deschis\u0103 spre g\u00e2ndurile \u015fi emo\u0163iile mele, o fereastr\u0103 deschis\u0103 pentru toat\u0103 lumea.\r\n\r\nAm crescut \u015fi am lucrat \u020bntr-un mediu \u020bn care mi s-a inoculat credin\u0163a c\u0103 a fi sau a te ar\u0103ta vulnerabil era o sl\u0103biciune, a spune ce g\u00e2nde\u015fti, a te l\u0103sa s\u0103-\u0163i tr\u0103ie\u015fti emo\u0163iile, a pl\u00e2nge sau a te bucura prea tare nu era permis. Acest mediu cred c\u0103 este familiar multora dintre noi.\r\n\r\n\u00cencerc\u0103rile timpurii de a m\u0103 ar\u0103ta vulnerabil\u0103 mi-au scos \u020bn cale oameni care au \u201cprofitat\u201d de vulnerabilitatea mea pentru a g\u0103si motive pentru care \u201cs\u0103 nu fiu suficient de bun\u0103 sau de puternic\u0103\u201d pentru \u201cceva anume\u201d. \u00cen acele momente, prima reac\u0163ie a fost de regret \u2013 de regret c\u0103 am ascultat o voce interioar\u0103 pe care o l\u0103sam s\u0103 m\u0103 ghideze atunci c\u00e2nd c\u0103utam un ecou al g\u00e2ndurilor mele \u020bn g\u00e2ndurile altora.\r\n<h3>\u201cA nu fi suficient de bun\u0103\u201d era deja o credin\u0163\u0103 a mea...<\/h3>\r\niar refuzurile nu f\u0103ceau dec\u00e2t s\u0103 o \u020bnt\u0103reasc\u0103. Aceast\u0103 credin\u0163\u0103 m-a m\u00e2nat permanent s\u0103 dovedesc c\u0103 \u201ceu pot\u201d \u2013 \u201ceu pot\u201d \u015fi sor\u0103 mai mic\u0103 fiind, \u201ceu pot\u201d \u015fi fat\u0103 fiind, \u201ceu pot\u201d \u015fi femeie fiind, \u201ceu pot\u201d \u015fi so\u0163ie fiind, \u201ceu pot\u201d \u015fi femeie divor\u0163at\u0103 fiind, \u201ceu pot\u201d \u015fi singur\u0103 fiind.\r\n\r\n\u201cEu pot\u201d \u020bnsemna pentru mine s\u0103 nu cer ajutorul, s\u0103 nu pl\u00e2ng, s\u0103 nu m\u0103 pl\u00e2ng, s\u0103 \u020bnv\u0103\u0163 mai mult, s\u0103 muncesc mai mult, s\u0103 m\u0103 descurc singur\u0103.\r\n<h3>\u201cEu pot\u201d \u020bnsemna pentru mine s\u0103 dovedesc c\u0103 \u201c\u015fi eu merit\u201d s\u0103 fiu iubit\u0103...<\/h3>\r\n...s\u0103 fiu \u0163inut\u0103 \u020bn bra\u0163e, s\u0103 fiu iertat\u0103 c\u00e2nd gre\u015feam, s\u0103 fie acolo cineva s\u0103 m\u0103 prind\u0103 c\u00e2nd aveam eu s\u0103 cad. \u015ei am c\u0103zut. \u015ei nu a fost nimeni acolo s\u0103 m\u0103 prind\u0103, dar nu pentru c\u0103 nu a\u015f fi meritat, ci pentru c\u0103 nu era de datoria nim\u0103nui s\u0103 fie acolo. EU aveam nevoie ca EU s\u0103 fiu preg\u0103tit\u0103 s\u0103 fiu acolo pentru mine, EU aveam nevoie ca EU s\u0103 con\u015ftientizez c\u0103 merit, EU aveam nevoie ca EU s\u0103 m\u0103 iubesc.\r\n\r\nAstfel c\u0103, la un moment dat, \u201ceu pot\u201d s-a transformat \u020bn \u201ceu vreau s\u0103 nu mai pot\u201d, am cerut ajutorul, \u015fi bine am f\u0103cut, pentru c\u0103 totul a \u020bnceput s\u0103 se schimbe: g\u00e2ndurile mele, comportamentul meu, obiceiurile mele, starea mea sufleteasc\u0103, oamenii din jurul meu, rela\u0163iile pe care le aveam, situa\u0163iile \u020bn care m\u0103 aflam.\r\n\r\nSchimb\u0103rile nu au fost lipsite de durere, dar nicio na\u015ftere nu e, pentru c\u0103 asta a fost pentru mine, ca o a doua na\u015ftere \u2013 o a doua na\u015ftere care mi-a oferit o via\u0163\u0103 eliberat\u0103 de \u201ca demonstra\u201d, o via\u0163\u0103 pe care s\u0103 o tr\u0103iesc, \u020bn sf\u00e2r\u015fit, \u020bn mod con\u015ftient, pentru mine.\r\n<h3>Schimb\u0103rile nu au avut loc peste noapte...<\/h3>\r\naceste schimb\u0103ri dureaz\u0103 de ceva ani \u015fi pot afirma faptul c\u0103 schimbarea a devenit o constant\u0103 \u020bn via\u0163a mea.\r\n\r\n\u00cen timp, mi s-a ar\u0103tat c\u0103 refuzurile, pe care eu le consideram e\u015fecuri, au fost pa\u015fi \u020bnainte, pa\u015fi \u020bndrepta\u0163i spre drumul meu, spre dezvoltarea mea, spre misiunea mea, \u015fi ce mi-a fost refuzat a fost, de fapt, un dar \u2013 darul de a avea disponibilitatea mental\u0103 \u015fi sufleteasc\u0103 spre ce \u020bmi era scris mie.\r\n\r\nAcum z\u00e2mbesc cu \u020bncredere c\u00e2nd realizez faptul c\u0103 vulnerabilitatea este o putere \u2013 de fapt, este o super putere \u2013 o super putere care m-a eliberat \u015fi continu\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 elibereze de limitele pe care mi le impusesem singur\u0103, de frustr\u0103rile ce au venit pentru c\u0103 m\u0103 sim\u0163eam prizonier\u0103 \u020bn ni\u015fte situa\u0163ii \u020bn care am ajuns pentru c\u0103 nu am fost sincer\u0103 cu mine \u020bns\u0103mi.\r\n<h3>Pentru mine, vulnerabilitatea presupune curaj...<\/h3>\r\n...curajul de a m\u0103 ar\u0103ta a\u015fa imperfect\u0103 cum sunt, compasiune \u2013 pentru mine \u015fi pentru cei din jur, \u015fi autenticitate \u2013 de a m\u0103 l\u0103sa s\u0103 fiu cum am nevoie s\u0103 fiu.\r\n\r\nVulnerabilitatea nu presupune o stare de confort, cel pu\u0163in nu pentru mine, nu acum, nu \u020bnc\u0103, dar m\u0103 las din ce \u020bn ce mai mult s\u0103 fiu vulnerabil\u0103 pentru c\u0103 acum nu mai \u015ftiu cum altfel s\u0103 fiu. Vulnerabilitatea mi-a deschis u\u015fa spre fericire \u015fi iubire, spre sentimentul de lini\u015fte \u015fi de apartenen\u0163\u0103, spre o stare de creativitate, spre drumul ce mi-e scris mie.\r\n\r\nCe \u020bmi place cel mai tare este c\u0103 vulnerabilitatea \u020bmi aduce o stare de eliberare, o stare \u020bn care nu se mai simte acea greutate \u020bn piept, o stare \u020bn care sunt at\u00e2t de \u020bn contact cu ceea ce mi se \u020bnt\u00e2mpl\u0103, \u020bnc\u00e2t s\u0103 mi se fac\u0103 des pielea de g\u0103in\u0103, s\u0103 o \u020bmp\u0103rt\u0103\u015fesc celor din jur, \u015fi s\u0103 m\u0103 bucur de asta.\r\n\r\nMi se face pielea de g\u0103in\u0103 inclusiv acum la g\u00e2ndul c\u0103 mi-am a\u015fternut g\u00e2ndurile aici, \u020bn primul articol postat pe blog, \u015fi nu poate dec\u00e2t s\u0103 m\u0103 bucure c\u0103 m-am l\u0103sat v\u0103zut\u0103 fiind vulnerabil\u0103.\r\n\r\nPovestea mea poate la fel de bine s\u0103 fie povestea oricui, astfel c\u0103, \u020bn \u020bncheiere, te invit s\u0103 r\u0103spunzi la c\u00e2teva \u020bntreb\u0103ri legate de rela\u0163ia ta cu vulnerabilitatea:","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-566","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Dezvoltare personal\u0103 \u0219i aliniere cu valorile tale | Florina Cioag\u0103<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Un articol personal despre cum credintele, valorile si emotiile noastre ne ghideaza drumul. 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